Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Affairs Marital
Statistics tell us that as high as 80% of all marriages will have at least one spouse involved in affairs marital at some point. Reasons for this vary: curiosity, insecurity, boredom, financial instability, lack of self control. These reasons alone don't necessarily bring people to the end of a marriage but the resulting extramarital behavior can, if not handled discreetly.
People have many reasons for wanting to protect their marriage, whether it be children or business/financial interests. In some relationships there is a lack of intimacy that can lead one to stray, a neglected partner can crave intimacy and love that they will eventually find elsewhere. So if one is seeking out intimacy, but wants to maintain the stability at home, what happens next?
Well the first thing to know is that most people having affairs usually leave many tell-tale signs. Here are ten things you need to be careful of:
1) If one partner is no longer able to have children, whether it be through vasectomy or tubal ligation, one of the first ways an affair is caught is when the other finds birth control (condoms, pills or other methods).
2) The ability to confide in a partner is one of the most treasured things a relationship can share. If you lose that ability or no longer share or seek advice from your partner, it can be the giveaway of an emotional distraction.
3) If one leave the house smelling like Versace and come back smelling like Irish Spring, 'nuff said.
4) Communication with an extramarital partner can be kept completely separate, through a different email and sometimes even a different cell phone. People trip up by accessing other email from the home computer that can leave browser cookies, this can end up being the tattle tale. Also, a new cell phone is usually controlled better than a crazy person blowing up the main cell phone or line at the house.
5) Often one's own indiscretions will lead them to think their partner has done something wrong. This can come out as one begins to accuse their partner of the very things they are doing.
6) Taking a sudden renewed interest in appearance, style and presentation, when there has been a lack of attention to it to this point, can be somewhat of a red flag. Changes happen naturally in people, but gradually not suddenly.
7) If your entire music collection at the house is jazz, but now rap is on the playlist, something has inspired that change.
8) Confiding in friends about the affair may feel comfortable, but may cause those friends to be uncomfortable around the both of you. The same goes for co-workers. People in your social circles should not be uncomfortable around you both, but if they are it can be a signal of a larger issue.
9) Getting some new nooky can give one a glow, and even an attitude. Sometimes that can be hard to hide, but the less that is done to hide it, the more the partner will notice.
10) Finances are a big way people get tripped up in affairs, credit card purchases from unusual places or sudden drops in disposable income can lead to questions about finances which usually lead to questions about actions.
This isn't everything, but gives you an idea of what to look out for. Now that's been said, if you are looking for an affair website check out some of the links provided on this page.
People have many reasons for wanting to protect their marriage, whether it be children or business/financial interests. In some relationships there is a lack of intimacy that can lead one to stray, a neglected partner can crave intimacy and love that they will eventually find elsewhere. So if one is seeking out intimacy, but wants to maintain the stability at home, what happens next?
Well the first thing to know is that most people having affairs usually leave many tell-tale signs. Here are ten things you need to be careful of:
1) If one partner is no longer able to have children, whether it be through vasectomy or tubal ligation, one of the first ways an affair is caught is when the other finds birth control (condoms, pills or other methods).
2) The ability to confide in a partner is one of the most treasured things a relationship can share. If you lose that ability or no longer share or seek advice from your partner, it can be the giveaway of an emotional distraction.
3) If one leave the house smelling like Versace and come back smelling like Irish Spring, 'nuff said.
4) Communication with an extramarital partner can be kept completely separate, through a different email and sometimes even a different cell phone. People trip up by accessing other email from the home computer that can leave browser cookies, this can end up being the tattle tale. Also, a new cell phone is usually controlled better than a crazy person blowing up the main cell phone or line at the house.
5) Often one's own indiscretions will lead them to think their partner has done something wrong. This can come out as one begins to accuse their partner of the very things they are doing.
6) Taking a sudden renewed interest in appearance, style and presentation, when there has been a lack of attention to it to this point, can be somewhat of a red flag. Changes happen naturally in people, but gradually not suddenly.
7) If your entire music collection at the house is jazz, but now rap is on the playlist, something has inspired that change.
8) Confiding in friends about the affair may feel comfortable, but may cause those friends to be uncomfortable around the both of you. The same goes for co-workers. People in your social circles should not be uncomfortable around you both, but if they are it can be a signal of a larger issue.
9) Getting some new nooky can give one a glow, and even an attitude. Sometimes that can be hard to hide, but the less that is done to hide it, the more the partner will notice.
10) Finances are a big way people get tripped up in affairs, credit card purchases from unusual places or sudden drops in disposable income can lead to questions about finances which usually lead to questions about actions.
This isn't everything, but gives you an idea of what to look out for. Now that's been said, if you are looking for an affair website check out some of the links provided on this page.
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